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Comment by Renee Michaels on January 9, 2013 at 7:32pm

Wondering how you've made out! I'm about to deal with a situation where someone is trying to "recruit" me & I've been politely avoiding any confrontation, but her agenda is becoming more aggressive (under a "kind" + "guilt" guise). As you, want to avoid drama/conflict, but any tips you can pass on will surely be appreciated!

Comment by Dan O'Donnell on August 23, 2012 at 8:35pm

Also Michelle, just posted this one http://positiveatmosphere.com/profiles/blogs/6418082:BlogPost:83506

Some very helpful ideas I came across regarding this topic :)

Comment by Dan O'Donnell on August 23, 2012 at 8:34pm

Thanks Michelle.  I love Eckhart, he has helped me out so much.  I owe him a high five when I see him.  It's great how many other people have told me they're working on this too, it's encouraging to see so many people trying to develop compassion/understanding :)

Comment by Dan O'Donnell on August 22, 2012 at 5:37pm

This sums it up.  Thich Nhat Hanh is one of my favorites, a great role model for patience, love and compassion...

Comment by Dan O'Donnell on August 21, 2012 at 11:41am

Thanks for the comments you guys.  I'm just trying to focus on compassion and love, and realizing that these people need it just as much as anyone.  It's definitely a chance for me to grow.  Jan, I like what you said about just taking a second to breathe, I'll try to remember that.  Take care you guys..

Comment by Jan Christian Soto on August 21, 2012 at 7:26am

I know what you mean Dan. You just can't help it at times when your emotions overtake the state of mind you would rather be in. I guess it's because when people set the tone, it can be contagious.
Sometimes you just have to take that split second to take a breath and ask yourself if the situation warrants such a response, or will it be just a waste of energy?
It's not just about being positive so it's easier to get over these moments, but embracing a positive lifestyle so that moments like these don't even have to be acknowledged as times of significance. (well, that's what I think anyway)
Good luck buddy. I go through the same struggles. :)

Comment by Donna Carlos on August 21, 2012 at 7:01am

Im on that too. . . Most of the times actually. But i know nobody can help most but only myself, to control my ownself emotionally, physically & mentality by looking at the bright side & just like this, reading positive thoughts. Its good to know im not the only one with the struggles . . . Hhehehe