"AH! Boundaries! What's that? Seriously, that is what I did wrong right from the beginning of my relationship with a negative person. I didn't make any. I was in love and a committed doormat. Not responsible for their happiness? What a…"
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what can I do to survive living with a really negative person?? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!
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Dennis Nelson replied to Paula Gi's discussion what can I do to survive living with a really negative person?? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!"Hi Paula
i think if you are living with a negative person that does not want to change, i believe you may have to understand how to put in place boundaries. you deserve a happy life . You will be drained if you try and change this person. So work…"
Karolyn replied to Paula Gi's discussion what can I do to survive living with a really negative person?? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!"Judith - I agree. When I was in this position, I would just stay away from him. We had separate bedrooms, and I would go into mine and shut the door if need be. However, if the negative person is a controller and/or abusive, he…"
Judith Gayle Baker replied to Paula Gi's discussion what can I do to survive living with a really negative person?? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!"I thought of two ideas. Tell him you don't like it and see what he says and handle it from there.
Avoid him as much as you can. If it isn't a long time when he or you leave.
I think it is imperative you do NOT argue with…"
Mariposa replied to Paula Gi's discussion what can I do to survive living with a really negative person?? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!"Just goes to show that Love can prevail! Thank you for your story, it's an inspiration and she sounds like an Angel on earth! :) "
Syn Zyn replied to Paula Gi's discussion what can I do to survive living with a really negative person?? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!"Life is a reflection of the combination of your beliefs (past) and desires (future). Everything that you perceive is what you have created. You attracted this person into your life to fill your needs. Leaving the situation without…"
Scott Morgan replied to Paula Gi's discussion what can I do to survive living with a really negative person?? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!"My question is how did you end up with such a negative person in your life?"
Shadow Combs replied to Paula Gi's discussion what can I do to survive living with a really negative person?? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!"I think if u combine Yogesh's response with Jane's response, u could have a solution. If that doesn't have affect on this person, I would suggest for u to tell that person, only once, but very clearly, that u find they're…"
Yogesh Jain replied to Paula Gi's discussion what can I do to survive living with a really negative person?? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!"Dear Paula; As i think ur question has also little negativity, u thinks little negative about that person who lives with u, For this u have to little change ur replaying mode means when he talk any negative thing u convert it in to positive view (if…"
June Baylis replied to Paula Gi's discussion what can I do to survive living with a really negative person?? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!"Negative people used to really drain my energy. I have learned that they just need to talk, and so I smile and listen and send them love mentally as I do it. I hardly say anything but they seem to think it helped them so maybe it did.…"
Neha Sharma replied to Paula Gi's discussion what can I do to survive living with a really negative person?? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!"really felt gud aftr reading this :)"
Karolyn replied to Paula Gi's discussion what can I do to survive living with a really negative person?? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!"Paula - The thing is why do we have to be strong? Why should we allow ourselves to be treated like that? When subjected to barrages of negativity, I found myself wanting him to hit me and get it over with rather than going on and…"
Karolyn replied to Paula Gi's discussion what can I do to survive living with a really negative person?? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!"I want to add that now we are friends and get along very well. Sometimes to save a relationship you have to remove yourself. "
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- At 1:39am on December 28, 2012,
Tore Gabrielsson said…
It's great that you want me as a friend, I'm not so good in the English language but will try to write. There is now very good translation software so I can use it when I write. Hope you have patience with it. All the best, so we might hear in the near future.
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Always put up a positive attitude. Put up positive responds to every negative acts of his. The opposite of negative is positive. By being positive you can compel this person to become positive.
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