"AH! Boundaries! What's that? Seriously, that is what I did wrong right from the beginning of my relationship with a negative person. I didn't make any. I was in love and a committed doormat. Not responsible for their happiness? What a…"
i think if you are living with a negative person that does not want to change, i believe you may have to understand how to put in place boundaries. you deserve a happy life . You will be drained if you try and change this person. So work…"
"Judith - I agree. When I was in this position, I would just stay away from him. We had separate bedrooms, and I would go into mine and shut the door if need be. However, if the negative person is a controller and/or abusive, he…"
"I thought of two ideas. Tell him you don't like it and see what he says and handle it from there.
Avoid him as much as you can. If it isn't a long time when he or you leave.
I think it is imperative you do NOT argue with…"
"Life is a reflection of the combination of your beliefs (past) and desires (future). Everything that you perceive is what you have created. You attracted this person into your life to fill your needs. Leaving the situation without…"
"I think if u combine Yogesh's response with Jane's response, u could have a solution. If that doesn't have affect on this person, I would suggest for u to tell that person, only once, but very clearly, that u find they're…"
"Dear Paula; As i think ur question has also little negativity, u thinks little negative about that person who lives with u, For this u have to little change ur replaying mode means when he talk any negative thing u convert it in to positive view (if…"
"Negative people used to really drain my energy. I have learned that they just need to talk, and so I smile and listen and send them love mentally as I do it. I hardly say anything but they seem to think it helped them so maybe it did.…"
"Paula - The thing is why do we have to be strong? Why should we allow ourselves to be treated like that? When subjected to barrages of negativity, I found myself wanting him to hit me and get it over with rather than going on and…"
being myself, taking off the negative costume that society tried to convince it was who "I should be", but I have never actually been...
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