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Comment by vishwa ranjan on April 28, 2013 at 3:18pm

Comment by Rey Juntilla Quebec on April 9, 2013 at 5:37am

I THINK RELATIONSHIP IS PART OF OUR LIFE, WE CANNOT IGNORE THIS ASPECT. I HAVE JOINED THIS GROUP TO HELP OTHERS AND MYSELF SETTLE PROBLEMS OF RELATIONSHIP. SINCE I AM A COUNSELOR IN SCHOOL AND PSYCHOLOGY BY PROFESSION I THINK I CAN BE OF GREAT HELP HERE. I AM HAPPY TO HELP BECAUSEWHEN I HELP OTHERS I ALSO HELP MYSEF.

Comment by Adie Carey Harvie on March 24, 2013 at 12:19pm

Hi, my name is Adie and I'm new to this site. Just came across it on Facebook. I hope to learn from you all and maybe help others if I have any words of wisdom from my experiences. My marriage ended just over 1 year ago. It has been a mad, heartbreaking & depressing time. I am and have been working on keeping positive and can say so much good has come out of the bad experiences. It is true "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger". Are you sick of hearing that? I was, but I live by it.
One piece of advise I would give is "do not live in hate" whatever bad experiences you have had, hate is to destructive and can eat you up and make you forever an unhappy bitter person. Be the bigger better person and rise above those "arses" that choose to hurt and devastate your life. Do not ponder on the bad stuff, always remember the happy, loving, caring times in your marriage or relationship. You would not have choosen this person if you did not love them. Some things just end, whatever the reason or excuse.
Living in the past and the what ifs will do no good. Make a future for yourself, where your happiness is top of the list.
I have found using positive affirmations so helpful.

Comment by Gabriele Gutierrez on March 4, 2013 at 2:02pm

Hi everyone!  I'm new to this group, and am glad to have found it.  I'm not necessarily looking for support in relationships with men, but with my relationships overall.  I'm a great recipient of others, but, have a really hard creating relationships.  Oy!  So, at times I find myself feeling lonely, and honestly, that is REALLY hard to share.  So, here I am!  Hope to share and learn from you.  :)

 

Comment by Irma Joseph on March 4, 2013 at 9:38am

Hi everyone I just joined this group hoping to learn and to share my experiences. I have been in a relationship almost 6 years, always open for comments, questions and feedback.

Comment by Leann on January 12, 2013 at 5:29am

Hi karolyn, thanks for you very true comment, he plays with my mind all the time, I'm sick of his attitude, we went through counselling last year, and even then he turned the tables on ME. I'm 38 with a lovely son who's 10 and it's affecting both of us, HE THE SO CALLED HUBBY, says I need to spend more time on him and not my son or the pets,

Comment by Karolyn on January 11, 2013 at 12:57pm

Leann - OMG! Sounds like me!  Although after we moved 600 miles away from home, he kicked me out!  I was with him for 15 years at that time.  Of course, we never married.  If I were you, i would run!  It will not get better unless he wants to change, and I'm sure you know how likely that is!  Of course, IF he wants to go through counseling, it's another story.  However, i have known no one in this kind of situation whose significant other would even hint at anything being wrong with him.  It's never THEM; it's always YOU.  It is a classic abuse scenario.  I worked for a Domestic Violence agency for 2 years and have seen it over and over.

Comment by Leann on January 11, 2013 at 10:56am

:-( I'm having a terrible time with my husband, he's controlling and abusive and threatening to me, not all the time but mainly when I say no to sex, he really puts me through it, emotionally and makes me ill. Can any one suggest anything, as I think he wants me to leave or something, this is not a short term prob, it's been like it for well since the day I married him 12 yrs ago.

Comment by Karolyn on January 4, 2013 at 2:04pm

Mandy, The best thing you can do is to let go!  If you love someone, let them go; and if they come back, it is meant to be.  I am wondering how old you are?  I would guess pretty young.  Been there; done that.   You can't force it.  A long time ago a counselor told me about the distancer/pursuer model.  When you chase after somebody, they keep running; but if you stop and go the other way, they will turn around and follow. That is, if it is meant to me, and that person really does love you.  I recently published a little ebook on Amazon Kindle about breakups.  Should you decide to follow my advice, the book can help in getting over it.  I've been around a long time, have done a lot of studying and had 3 major long-term relationships as well as a few short term when I was young, so via trial and error, uphill and down, I've come to some pretty good beliefs and tips on relationships.  http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00ATQ8M2I 

Comment by mandy on January 2, 2013 at 8:14pm

my bf broke up with me after 4 monthes cuz he said he wasnt ready to settle down but he loves me very much. does that mean he wants space? i love him very much. i could use some advice.

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