Inspiring and Empowering Positive People
This is just my opinion but pray about it. God doesn't give us more than we can handle and there are no such things as coincidence. I wouldn't say JUMP in to the pool both feet at the same time but test the waters. Be careful good luck and God bless... PMA Jason
Kelly...posting this question and wanted to know opinion of others,I think that you aren't shure in your feelings...if you're shure in making decission in this important life topic you wouldn't ask others,you would listen to your heart.If you like to listen to others opinion,I will tell you that we need that past let behind us,because,only when we let the past,we'll have new possitive experiences in life.It's obviously that he's afraid of lonlyness,and it's wonderful that you're friend with him now.But,will you feel happy if you reapeat something what was ended???If your marriage was something good,it wouldn't never be broken.....
I would tread very cautiously if you decide to bring him back into your life. There was a reason you didn't stay together. The positive side to time is that we all have the opportunity to grow and become who we truly were/are meant to be. Only you can know if you should take the chance. Listen to your inner gut. Trust what you hear. Don't trust what you WANT to hear because if you listen to this side you are setting yourself up for failure.
I have a book that I purchased a few years ago called: Intellectual Foreplay: Questions for lovers & lovers-to-be By: Eve Eschner Hogan, M.A.
I know it sounds like an inappropriate book but for me I purchased it more to learn about myself. It isn't a book about sex, it's a book about discovering your compatibility with people. Not just lovers, husbands but with people in general. It helped me really realize things about myself that are very important in relationships.
I hope this helps you and I hope you aren't offended by my book suggestion. If I have, I truly apologize.
why not, life is short, enjoy it
Isnt it better to love and (Maybe) lose than to never love at all? Also...wouldnt it be worth it for your kids sake for them to have their dad around.