Should I give him another chance?

Recently I got in contact with the father of my children. We were high school sweethearts,but he married someone else, is now divorced like me.Just met our kids and claims to love me again. I know I still care also. Should I take a chance on him? He does have God in his life also.

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Permalink Reply by Dan O'Donnell on August 25, 2011 at 10:07am
hmm... what do you have to lose?

I would say consider the worst realisic scenario, consider the best case, and then follow your intuition.

I don't think you'd be posing the question here if you didn't want to go for it. So, if the worst case scenario is acceptable, I would say go for it.

I personally would rather make a mistake than regret never trying.

That's just my opinion, hope it helps, and I hope you get some other good advice from the others here too.

All the best to you Kelly,

Dan O'
Permalink Reply by Kelly Grey on August 25, 2011 at 4:17pm
Thanks for the advice, Dan! I just don't want to get hurt again. But I do love him. Thanks again!!
Permalink Reply by Dan O'Donnell on August 25, 2011 at 8:09pm
u bet Kelly, good luck with everything :)
Permalink Reply by Toni Hughes on August 25, 2011 at 9:04pm
I think you already know the answer, Kelly. Your heart is telling you what to do.....listen to it.
Permalink Reply by Dan O'Donnell on August 25, 2011 at 9:17pm
I agree with Toni, and here's a video that might help you with this decision too :) http://positiveatmosphere.com/video/oprah-winfrey-s-2008-stanford-c...
Permalink Reply by Dan O'Donnell on December 10, 2011 at 9:37pm

So if you want to share, what's the latest Kelly?  Don't mean to pry, just curious.  Hope you're doing well, all the best to ya :)

Permalink Reply by Tewedaj Alemayehu on December 19, 2011 at 4:28am

First of all if U are in God's hand just ask him first. Then if both of U are alone and need to have relation I will be good to be with again. Why not??????????

Permalink Reply by Mohammad Abu Salem on December 30, 2011 at 1:26am
Yes for u and your kids . It's so important to give your self that chance not to him 
Permalink Reply by Aklile Mekonnen on December 31, 2011 at 2:39pm

you really dont have to  ask for advise. you should  do what your heart tells you to do.Our heart some how knows the right path.

 

Permalink Reply by Doug Hoelbinger on February 7, 2012 at 10:06pm

Details are important in any case, but what really matters is how healthy the relationship is for all involved. so long as there is no abuse of any kind, I'd say go for it, esspecially if you love him and even more so where the kids are involved...

... people need their children, just as much as their children need them.

Permalink Reply by Just Me on February 12, 2012 at 2:32pm

Sweetie, you have a second chance, this time your eyes are wide open.  And, people do change. 

Permalink Reply by Kisa on February 14, 2012 at 12:25am

As you wrote this post-i think- you already know what you want. maybe you just too afraid:) but remember you never be happy if you won't, at least, try.

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